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A GROUP of London psychiatrists and psychotherapists are treating
nervous breakdowns as family rather than individual problems;
and they claim that they are achieving in only a few days what
mental hospitals fail to achieve in months through the use of
drugs and electro-convulsive therapy (ECT).
Dr Morton Schatzman, the founder of the group, named Arbours'
Association, says : " Emotional crises and emotional breakdowns
invariably arise in family or group situations-they are, essentially,
family problems. And yet mental hospitals treat only individuals.
"Since patients, like everybody else, never report precisely
what is happening to them the information the hospitals get is
always incomplete and it can be misleading."
The focal point of the association's family therapy work is the
"crisis centre"; a daunting name for a modest, semi-detached
house in a quiet, tree-lined road in North West London. Members
of distressed families - sometimes entire families-are being invited
to stay there for a few days.
" We do not practice medicine in the traditional sense.
All we try to do is to make their motives intelligible to themselves."
Says Dr Joseph Berke, a co-founder of the association.
'A husband fails to confide in his Wife about his
business worries ... a mother thinks her husband is demanding
too much of the children'
The Arbours argue that the family leads a tightrope existence
and can get by for years without really knowing itself. Flimsy
assumptions are made about relationships. Annoying habits remain
unchecked. Things that should be said are left unsaid ... a
husband
fails to confide in his wife about his business worries, leaving
her feeling that he is ignoring her . . . a mother thinks that,
her husband is demanding too much from the children...
And then the crisis comes: a marital breakdown, a runaway child,
bankruptcy, a marriage which is opposed. When, one person falters,
it becomes increasingly difficult for everybody else to keep
balance. In the inevitable fall, everybody is bruised; but one
person is
visibly worse than everybody else.
He becomes the patient though the Arbours say he might be the
least disturbed member of the family. He is classified as "mentally
ill." The family begin to treat him differently, interpreting
everything he does as a sign of his condition. Sooner or later,
the Arbours say, he begins to enact his own ideas of mental illness-and
even makes a career out of being a chronic mental patient.
'The mental patient is, often a scapegoat selected by his or
her family'
"Much so-called mental illness is mythical," says Dr
Berke. " We believe that the mental patient is often a scapegoat
selected by the family to rationalise its own actions."
How does the centre work?
"When we respond to a call, we alert a team of about two
dozen people. They talk with the disturbed individual, his family,
friends and anybody else who can help.
"When the team agrees that we call help an individual-who
might be the mother who called us, rather than the son she called
about- he or she, or both, are invited to spend a
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few
days at the centre with the two residents, a psychotherapist and
a former teacher of maladjusted children."
The Arbours takes its name from the New English Bible Leviticus
23:24: "You shall live in arbours for seven" days."
Arbours, then, is a temporary refuge. In this case, the semi.
However the guests ('not patients,') are not given any refuge
from their problems, either through drugs or in any other way.
They are encouraged to talk about their distress at quite literally
anytime, night or day.
"We provide the guests with a sympathetic support system,
but at the same time we think that people should face their problems
head on. Suffering can be beneficial - it can act as an incentive.
Drugs, however enable people to forget what is bothering them,"
says Dr Berke.
Many, complex problems have been unraveled at the centre in what
amount to journeys of self discovery. For instance one case,
involved
a married couple and a friend. The husband was tense and had
developed a bad stammer.
At times he was unable to speak at all.
The friend suggested that they should go to the centre-and that
he should accompany them. Within a few days the husband was speaking
fluently and freely again. His tension disappeared and he and
his wife, left the centre, leaving their friend behind. It transpired
that he had " befriended " many married couples, preferring
to sample the emotions of marriage second hand rather than marry
himself.
Discussion revealed that, during childhood, lie had riot been,
allowed to learn anything about his parents relationship. It was
as if they were in a castle and he was outside-beyond the in moat.
Dr Schatzman said: " In other circumstances it might have
been assumed that the husband was mentally ill. I think the point
to stress is that you don't need to be round the bend to need
help, but that you will very quickly go
that way unless you get the right sort of help.
'We are far too ready to classify other people as mentally
ill'
" In a recent study, eight people, four of them students
of psychology, set out to prove how easy it was to be diagnosed
as mentally ill. None of them had psychiatric histories, so they
invented symptoms, They each went to a different hospital, complaining
about a voice which kept saying: "Empty, hollow and thud."
" Seven of them were diagnosed as schizophrenic and one as
a manic depressive. They were kept in hospital for an average
of 19 days each, and yet, during that time they behaved quite
normally."
The doctors could obviously not be criticised for taking the
counterfeit symptoms seriously. But why did none of them, inquire
into the
family and social background of their patients?
" The trouble is," ' says Dr Schatzman, " that
people-and this includes psychiatrists-are. far too ready to classify
other people as mentally ill.
- John Illman
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